My wedding is in 17 days (AHHHHHH!!) and I just found out my brother, who is supposed to be a groomsman has a major possibility of deployment right before the wedding. We don't want to replace him as a groomsman so we are keeping his name in the program. I'm not sure if we should say he is deployed so people don't wonder where he is when there is a guy missing up front, or if we should not say anything because it is not 100%. Any ideas? I'm sure others have dealt with this before (it super sucks by the way) and I'm just looking for some ideas!