One of my closest friends in the world got married last September. Let's call her Miss Bunny.
MISS BUNNY HAS NOT SENT OUT THANK YOU NOTES FOR THE WEDDING GIFTS THAT HER AND HER NOW HUSBAND RECEIVED!!!
Miss Bunny and I share a group of friends (nope, none of us got thank yous). One of the couples in that group has parents whom we are all close with. These parents, though not invited to the wedding, sent Miss Bunny a wedding gift. These parents (well...the momma...this is a momma you don't mess with, we love her dearly) are pissed that they never got acknowledgement for the gift that they absolutely did NOT have to send, especially since they weren't invited to the wedding! I heard of this and decided that I would be the only one who would have
the guts to confront Miss Bunny that she needed to get them done.
I (very politely, as this is obviously a touchy subject) tried to bring up the thank you notes to Miss Bunny twice. Once in probably March and then once at the end of June. I tried to go a nice route, instead of telling her that people will be mad, I tried to explain that I had recently sent a wedding gift to someone and never received a thank you note, which made me concerned that they never received the gift.
Nope. Didn't work. She is so embarrassed that she is refusing to send them now. They had a rather large wedding...I can only imagine how many people they pissed off.
People...send your thank you cards.