TMI thoughts - what's your hell no?

beethery

beethery said:

I used to LOVE being choked but I have no idea how FI would respond to the request.

Same.  I mean, I don't want like full out black spots choking, but a little pressure would be nice.  I know one of his former girlfriends used to try to get him to hit her (he refused) so I'm not sure if the request would freak him out or not.  

Like spank hitting or full out sock me in the teeth hitting? I get different strokes for different folks but loooooordy! I could see why requests that vaguely seem to be in a similar vein would freak him out.

levioosa

beethery said:

beethery said:

I used to LOVE being choked but I have no idea how FI would respond to the request.

Same.  I mean, I don't want like full out black spots choking, but a little pressure would be nice.  I know one of his former girlfriends used to try to get him to hit her (he refused) so I'm not sure if the request would freak him out or not.  

Like spank hitting or full out sock me in the teeth hitting? I get different strokes for different folks but loooooordy! I could see why requests that vaguely seem to be in a similar vein would freak him out.

Like she really wanted him to full on hit her.  Let's just say she had some family issues, especially of the paternal kind..... 

He's down for some spanking though.  

lightningsnow

Anal is currently a hell no for me. BF has accidentally gotten in there once and since I was so in the moment I didn't scream at him, he thinks it's going to happen. Regular sex hurts me too much, I don't want that area to be hurting.

I wouldn't mind a threesome if it was another woman and I got to choose her.

I don't like having my breasts being touched right now. They're growing through major growth spurts and are too sensitive plus it triggers flashbacks to what happened to me when I was 13.

No bjs at all. No thank you! No pee or poop either, gross.

lurkergirl

lightningsnow said:

Anal is currently a hell no for me. BF has accidentally gotten in there once and since I was so in the moment I didn't scream at him, he thinks it's going to happen. Regular sex hurts me too much, I don't want that area to be hurting.

I wouldn't mind a threesome if it was another woman and I got to choose her.

I don't like having my breasts being touched right now. They're growing through major growth spurts and are too sensitive plus it triggers flashbacks to what happened to me when I was 13.

No bjs at all. No thank you! No pee or poop either, gross.

Are you pregnant?  How do your boobs have growth spurts in adulthood?

Also, have your seen your doctor regarding the very painful sex?

Inkdancer

lurkergirl said:

lightningsnow said:

Anal is currently a hell no for me. BF has accidentally gotten in there once and since I was so in the moment I didn't scream at him, he thinks it's going to happen. Regular sex hurts me too much, I don't want that area to be hurting.

I wouldn't mind a threesome if it was another woman and I got to choose her.

I don't like having my breasts being touched right now. They're growing through major growth spurts and are too sensitive plus it triggers flashbacks to what happened to me when I was 13.

No bjs at all. No thank you! No pee or poop either, gross.

Are you pregnant?  How do your boobs have growth spurts in adulthood?

Also, have your seen your doctor regarding the very painful sex?

Mine did. I went from a DD to a G at age 20.

lurkergirl

Inkdancer said:

lurkergirl said:

lightningsnow said:

Anal is currently a hell no for me. BF has accidentally gotten in there once and since I was so in the moment I didn't scream at him, he thinks it's going to happen. Regular sex hurts me too much, I don't want that area to be hurting.

I wouldn't mind a threesome if it was another woman and I got to choose her.

I don't like having my breasts being touched right now. They're growing through major growth spurts and are too sensitive plus it triggers flashbacks to what happened to me when I was 13.

No bjs at all. No thank you! No pee or poop either, gross.

Are you pregnant?  How do your boobs have growth spurts in adulthood?

Also, have your seen your doctor regarding the very painful sex?

Mine did. I went from a DD to a G at age 20.

Man, I am jealous, haha!  Think I have a chance at 29?

Is it wrong that I look forward to pregnancy partly for the bigger boobs?

JennyColada

My boobs grew from a B to a D when I was 19, and from a D to a DDD when I was around my mid 20s (no other weight gain though!).

lightningsnow

lurkergirl said:

lightningsnow said:

Anal is currently a hell no for me. BF has accidentally gotten in there once and since I was so in the moment I didn't scream at him, he thinks it's going to happen. Regular sex hurts me too much, I don't want that area to be hurting.

I wouldn't mind a threesome if it was another woman and I got to choose her.

I don't like having my breasts being touched right now. They're growing through major growth spurts and are too sensitive plus it triggers flashbacks to what happened to me when I was 13.

No bjs at all. No thank you! No pee or poop either, gross.

Are you pregnant?  How do your boobs have growth spurts in adulthood?

Also, have your seen your doctor regarding the very painful sex?

I recently changed BC and they jumped cup sizes. I am most certainly not pregnant though.

And I have discussed with my NP about the painful sex. One thing is my BF is very wide and I have a tilted cervix, which may or may not be the reason for it. It hurts when he's inserting until he gets all the way in then I'm fine. After a certain point the pain turns to pleasure and I'm good. Also I'm recently recovering from a yeast infection so that is causing some pain. We've tried several things to ease my pain but sometimes it doesn't help.

blabla89

JennyColada said:

My boobs grew from a B to a D when I was 19, and from a D to a DDD when I was around my mid 20s (no other weight gain though!).

Does this mean there's hope for me?!? I swear mine haven't grown since 7th grade...I'm still the president of the IBTC

Sugargirl1019

blabla89 said:

JennyColada said:

My boobs grew from a B to a D when I was 19, and from a D to a DDD when I was around my mid 20s (no other weight gain though!).

Does this mean there's hope for me?!? I swear mine haven't grown since 7th grade...I'm still the president of the IBTC


I want my boobs to grow magically...

LadyMillil

Sugargirl1019 said:

blabla89 said:

JennyColada said:

My boobs grew from a B to a D when I was 19, and from a D to a DDD when I was around my mid 20s (no other weight gain though!).

Does this mean there's hope for me?!? I swear mine haven't grown since 7th grade...I'm still the president of the IBTC

I want my boobs to grow magically...

I just switched BCP and went up half a cup size! I actually fit in an A now! I'm hoping they make it to a B. DH is really hoping I get pregnancy boobs when I'm PG and that they don't go away.

sarahufl

lurkergirl said:

ShesSoCold said:

Sugargirl1019 said:

Sugargirl1019 said:

Porn. Nope.

I just can't get on board with that one. I love me some good porn.

Nope. It offends me and feels like betrayal, like I'm not good enough. Always been that way.

Your husband drinks your urine but porn is too far?

I mean, to each his own and I mean no offense, but wow. 

Haha, glad I'm not the only one who thought that!

I'm kind of meh on porn.  We had a rough patch a couple years into dating, and I'm sure he was watching his fair share while I wallowed in self pity...have watched a little together when we're drunk, but it just doesn't really add to the experience for us.

69 is mighty fine!  I feel funny about being all in his face like that, but he loves it.  He also really likes it when I sit on his face, but I need plenty of wine for that one.  It's super nice once I get over the awkwardness of it.

See, I love face-sitting. Love it. There is something about the angle that you don't get when you are lying down that makes it so much better.

lurkergirl

sarahufl said:

lurkergirl said:

ShesSoCold said:

Sugargirl1019 said:

Sugargirl1019 said:

Porn. Nope.

I just can't get on board with that one. I love me some good porn.

Nope. It offends me and feels like betrayal, like I'm not good enough. Always been that way.

Your husband drinks your urine but porn is too far?

I mean, to each his own and I mean no offense, but wow. 

Haha, glad I'm not the only one who thought that!

I'm kind of meh on porn.  We had a rough patch a couple years into dating, and I'm sure he was watching his fair share while I wallowed in self pity...have watched a little together when we're drunk, but it just doesn't really add to the experience for us.

69 is mighty fine!  I feel funny about being all in his face like that, but he loves it.  He also really likes it when I sit on his face, but I need plenty of wine for that one.  It's super nice once I get over the awkwardness of it.

See, I love face-sitting. Love it. There is something about the angle that you don't get when you are lying down that makes it so much better.

I think the nose has something to do with it.  It hits at just the right spot.