Hi All,
I've been engaged for a little less than 2 weeks. Due to a limited number of reception venues in the area, I'm under pressure to find something ASAP. I am from a large family (mom has 9 siblings spread alllllll over the US). At present, our guest list is sitting at 456 people (including a fair number of kids). Although our wedding date is not definite, because I'm set on choosing a venue I like first, I am 95% certain it will be September-December 2015 meaning during the school year.
Is it wrong for me to pre-poll my family members about whether they will come or not without any details in place? I would really really like to factor that into my choice of venue. My fear is that I will invite 450-500 people and plan for that at a reception venue and only have 200 responses.
Has anyone else had to deal with similar situations? Advice please!!