So here's my dilemma. Having been around alcohol and alcoholics, I have convinced myself that having an open bar will result in people getting unruly and someone saying something they shouldn't and causing a disturbance. FI says that if we don't provide alcohol, a lot of people won't dance and that it will totally change the dynamic of the reception. I want people to have a good time and FI agrees that an open bar could cause issues, so it seems like a cash bar might be the way to go. I'm wondering though, if there may be another way without making the guests pay for their own drinks. Would a drink ticket system be rude? Like allow people over the age of 21 3 drinks or something? Or are the only options dry reception, cash bar, open bar? Thanks!