So one of my bridesmaids just told me that she's not staying at the resort I'm having my wedding at since her father-in-law can get her a great discount at a hotel a few miles away. EVERYONE else is staying at the resort and the entire wedding and reception is being held there. She says that it's because she can't afford the rooms at the resort, which I believe are very reasonable (as does everyone else who's staying there obviously). I suggested that she split a room with another bridesmaid who is a good friend of hers, but she said she wants alone time with her husband (they just got married last month). I think this is selfish and that she should stay at the resort. I've even offered to pay for one night. Am I being unreasonable!?!