I am so tired of the f-ing wedding hair
I had my second hair trial last night. The first one was awhile ago, and it was really, really terrible and so I dropped that stylist and found a new one. I thought the trial went awesome - she did three different styles and I ended up loving two of them - one was a half up style, and one was a side pony. Both were poofy on the top, which I liked, because I typically have pin straight, flat, fine hair.
I get home, pumped, and make the terrible mistake of showing my FI the photos. And while my FI normally is so, so complimentary of how I look, he just sort of stared at the pictures and was like, "Uhhh.... why can't you just wear your hair normal? Like you do everyday? I don't really like these." I seriously had a meltdown. We are three weeks out from our wedding and I am already insanely stressed about everything that people stress out about (missing RSVPs... seating charts... crazy people asking if they can bring their kids... my dress alterations are a disaster, etc.). So this was like, the final straw on my sanity.
I don't want to have a third hair trial, I'm annoyed (read: pissed) at my FI for saying anything other than "HAIR LOOKS GREAT!", and I have no idea what to do. Should I give a crap about FI's opinion about my hair? And just on my wedding day tell the stylist, "Changed my mind. Just blow it out, leave it down, and curl the ends?" Uggggghhhhhh.