What is with the holier-than-thou etiquette police you need to point out everything I (you too) are doing "wrong". Who the hell cares if I write "1:30pm" on my invite because it's more "us" than saying "half past one o'clock in the afternoon"?!?!? Live and let live my friends.
Also, what is with people bashing theknot.com on these boards? Do they not realize the boards are run by the knot?