I finally found my dress on Sunday, and it is absolutely perfect!!
There is, however, one issue of logistics. My mother was sure that, with a few exceptions (we knew David's was probably one), salons would be able to store my dress after alterations until the week of the wedding, when it would be pressed and then I'd take it home. Having no experience with dress salons, I figured she'd know better than I would. Long story short, she was wrong -- the salon will not store my dress, and I will be required to pick it up as soon as alterations are done which can be 3 weeks or more before the wedding. I will be in the process of moving out of my apartment for most of those 3 weeks, so it will be very chaotic, and more importantly my apartment is: prone to dust, poorly climate controlled, often full of spiders, and reeks of smoke from the previous tenants -- everything I was told NOT to expose my dress to! I also apparently can't leave my dress in the bag. The consultants' suggestion was to have a friend or relative take the dress, but all my relatives are out of state, my in-laws live 2 hours away and the closest friend lives 45 minutes away and will try to help but her apartment may not be much better.
The consultants decided to drop this little tidbit basically after I'd already said yes to the dress, so my parents decided we should go ahead with the dress, since no other store carries it, and thought we could probably find a cleaner to press and store it. Unfortunately, we visited several local cleaners and a Zoots without much success.
So I'm wondering: in general, do folks know of cleaner chains that store dresses like this? Do you know of other types of places that might? Has anyone else run into this issue, and if so how did you solve it?