I picked out a beautiful wedding dress thats relatively plain but I feel beautiful and very serene in it. However, my mother absolutely hates it. She says it looks unfinished (which is really her way of saying it's not covered in sparkles) and boring. I feel bad that she doesn't like it but it is my wedding dress and I am paying for it myself. Her hostility is making it very hard to enjoy this whole process of planning my wedding. Does anyone else know of a way to handle this or make me feel less awful?
Re: Really Frustrated
I am sorry your mom said those comments to you. She needs to be reminded that the dress is NOT about her, or her tastes.
I would keep details about your planning to a minimum with her. If she asks why she isn't hearing much about your planning, be honest with her. Tell her it is hard to share exciting and fun information with her when her typical response is to be negative.