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What to do about bridesmaid..

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Re: What to do about bridesmaid..

  • I don't even talk to my MIL. My FSIL told her the girl didn't show so she told us we needed to figure it out cause she wasn't paying for her.
  • This was how many months ago but since people still comment... I gave the BM a date she had to order a dress by and said that was that. She responded a month later calling me names and telling me not to tell her what to do. I didn't respond back, left it on her. A few weeks ago she messaged me again and said she wanted no part of my fake wedding and I said that's fine. The end.
  • @alyssanicole18 fake wedding?  I feel like there's more to this story than you're saying. What makes your wedding a fake wedding?  

    And also, what do you mean by your MIL isn't going to pay for her? Pay for what exactly?
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  • @hsgator‌ we're waiting to have sex. Apparently since we aren't having sex prior our marriage is fake. Weird huh? She said this obviously means he's cheating on me and I should be keeping tabs on him. This is why I'm done caring, obviously I don't need someone like that by my side on the day of our wedding. And paying for her plate and alcohol/beverages.
  • Woah this thread took a turn for the bizarre!

    "Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."


    novella1186floridabride44slothiegal
  • @PrettyGirlLost‌ Im sorry you find my personal discussions bizarre.

  • @PrettyGirlLost‌ Im sorry you find my personal discussions bizarre.
    Are you trying to throw shade?  I can't tell because being just words on a screen, there's no way to know your tone.


    @hsgator‌ we're waiting to have sex. Apparently since we aren't having sex prior our marriage is fake. Weird huh? She said this obviously means he's cheating on me and I should be keeping tabs on him. This is why I'm done caring, obviously I don't need someone like that by my side on the day of our wedding. And paying for her plate and alcohol/beverages.
    I was actually agreeing with you.  Your friend is whackadoodle.

    "Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."


    slothiegal[Deleted User]
  • @PrettyGirlLost‌ nope not at all. I'm comfortable with my choices, I assumed you thought that was bizarre. My mistake.
    PrettyGirlLost
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    edited January 2015
    alyssanicole18 said: @hsgator‌ we're waiting to have sex. Apparently since we aren't having sex prior our marriage is fake. Weird huh? She said this obviously means he's cheating on me and I should be keeping tabs on him. This is why I'm done caring, obviously I don't need someone like that by my side on the day of our wedding. And paying for her plate and alcohol/beverages.

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    ....I can't understand that logic
    at all.  And that is from someone who had plenty of sex before marriage.  Huh.

    Better off without those kind of "friends".

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