Hi Everyone!
I had a quick questions, me and my fiancé have booked our wedding date for next year and it will be a destination wedding. However since we have gotten engaged we had to relocate due to his job and we had to take a chunk from our wedding fund bc we had to move to a different state and buy a house. We are quickly coming up on the holidays and since we are budgeting and saving can you guys please tell me the etiquettes when it comes to Christmas etc. I have a fairly large family back home and was wondering if it is necessary to buy Christmas gifts for everyone or us just flying back home to see everyone is sufficient enough? I know everyone has their own opinion so please feel free to chip in a give some advice! Thank you!
Re: Budget Wedding, holiday gifts
Doesn't mean gifts need to be expensive though. But in general, I think if you know someone is going to give you a gift, you should try and give them one too.
It definitely varies by family. However once my brothers got married years ago I said let's draw names instead of buying smaller gifts for everyone, and then after they were divorced we decided to just do none at all for each other and just buy for my parents and niece. My family has never gone overboard with gifts anyway so it wasn't a big deal.
You could be proactive and set a new tradition for drawing names. I bet others would appreciate this too instead of buying for everyone in the large family, people just usually don't want to be the one to bring it up.
kk111415 Yes I decided to just make really sentimental gifts for everyone. I make lotion bars & candles as a hobby so I was decided to just do that and make everyone like a little "spa" box with the items that I make. We usually send holiday cards as well but we decided to skip it since the save the dates are costly.
Thanks for everyone input it definitely helped and made me feel less worried about holiday gifts especially for just one year