Sorry - I just mentioned this in a comment on the invitations thread, but can't remember what to put in the title. Is it an "X" or something? Sorry!! I'm fairly new to the boards.
Anyway, I told my fiance I'd ask around about something:
If people say they will not, under any circumstances, be able to go after the STD goes out, is it technically considered "b listing" to add people to the guest list for their spots.? Obviously, if both groups came we could host them both, but we would rather not go over the limit we had set, and the others never got a STD.
I thought it was b-listing, but FI insisted it wasn't since STDs aren't required.
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