This bridesmaid and I used to be really good friends. We do not talk as much now. Plus my fiancé thinks that she uses me, but he is not the kind of person that would ask me to choose. The situation that really got me thinking about un-asking her is this: I told my bridesmaids three weeks in advance that we would be trying on dresses and ordering them on a particular Saturday. Well I contacted everyone a day or two before to make sure it was still okay with them and asked IF we needed to change the date to the following Saturday. The other bridesmaids were fine with the chosen Saturday. This bridesmaid informed me that she no longer had a job (and at this point she thought I had changed the date because I suggested to change the date). Well I told her to come anyways to choose a dress and we could wait and order at a later time. Granted.. that text might have confused her, but she claimed she had made plans for the whole Saturday because she thought I had changed the date. She couldn't even take 30 - hr out of that Saturday to try on a dress. I had the date planned for three weeks AND the shop was in the town where she lives. Also, I texted that Saturday to ask if she was coming... NO REPLY ALL DAY! Then she proceeded to text me the following Monday to ask a favor (without mentioning anything about that Saturday).
Like I said, we used to be really good friends. Idk what to do.