Someone On My Side?

PrettyGirlLost

atlastmrsg said:

kat1114 said:

larrygaga said:

mrs4everhart

Just going to be straight with you, because this has happened before. People have posted on here, pissed of the ladies here and personal information has leaked, and shit has gone down. There are a lot of computer savvy people here. I am just helping you to avoid fucked up situations. Because it is your job to make sure you don't piss off internet people who can figure out who you are pretty easily, and get to your facebook and anyone on your friend's list and figure out who you are married to. 

In my 20+ years of experience with internet, I can't sit here and let you allow victimization eventually wash over you when you push people too far who can easily access your shit. You are asking for your personal information being leaked by just being here with stupid opinions. 

It really would be the best karma though...her being victimized after complaining victims are really just sabatoging themselves.

That is horrible.  That kind of comment is much worse than one person having a differing opinion than you.  Absolutely atrocious to wish that kind of ill upon someone.

Are you fucking serious?

She was being sarcastic and was turning Everhart's own ridiculous logic back on her.

But I'm not surprised that you don't get that when you also had a pretty frigging tone deaf response to the OP-  you judged the her for how many drinks she had, told her not to go to the ER to make sure she wasn't drugged, and told her to use this as a learning experience.

FiancB

Plot twist: Everhart is actually a hairy, smelly, sweaty dude in a fedora that deals roofies out of his mom's basement. 

At least that's what I've had pictured in my head through this whole thread. 

phira

@FiancB Don't forget the neckbeard.

beethery

FiancB said:

Plot twist: Everhart is actually a hairy, smelly, sweaty dude in a fedora that deals roofies out of his mom's basement. 

At least that's what I've had pictured in my head through this whole thread. 

I had been googling MRAs to respond to her with, but it wasn't worth it so I never followed through.

slothiegal

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ashley8918

phira said:

@FiancB Don't forget the neckbeard.

mrscomposer

PrettyGirlLost said:

mrscomposer said:

mrs4everhart said:

I guess you all are the experts at what goes on in bars, not me, despite my nearly 20 years in the business. 

You all are right. People should go through life however they choose then stand back and let victimization wash all over them instead of trying their hardest to avoid fucked up situations as best as possible. Sure.

Meanwhile, I'll be trying to decide how best to deal with the likes of many of you. Because I'm often the one dealing with drunken, unruly young women, attempting to do the right thing after they've been abandoned in the bar by their "friends." Hmm, girl can't tell me her name or where she lives, should I put her in a cab? Hmm, maybe call detox so she can wake up scared, hung over, alone in a strange place with a big ass bill to pay? Do I let her wander off in to the cold, dark night likes she's drunkenly reminded me repeatedly is her right? Do I let the strange guy take her home, since he's truly "only trying to help." Because this is reality. In every town and city, most weekends of the year. It might not be y'all's reality but I invite you to go to the club and not drink. Just watch. Learn. It'll make your head spin.

When you've pulled enough vomit covered chicks out of the bathroom after last call, waited for detox to show up, dealt with the police enough times in date rape cases, assaults and batteries, thefts, brawls, etc., come tell me that people should be able to behave however they'd like with alcohol, consequence free.

Good luck with it. You'll fucking need it.

I AM the police who deals with the date rape cases, assaults and batteries, thefts, brawls, etc.  We are not disputing the fact that many people don't take care of themselves they way they should when they're drinking.  WE ARE disputing the tone of your posts when you make it sound like the OP should've just known better and protected herself more. 

I get it.  It sucks dealing with the same things over and over, every single night.  Lordy lordy, do I get it.  But if you can't muster up a bit of compassion, maybe it's time to find a job that actually lets you have a soul.

Officer Composer, THANK YOU!!!!!!

I can't love this post enough.  Bless you.

And as soon as I read the first line I pictured this, lol

Aww, *blush*.  Thanks PGL!

I had to try really hard not type "I AM the mother-fucking PO-lice..."

Oops, just failed

larrygaga

edenisle

I have had something similar happen to me, and I was only on my second drink when it happened (and was not on any medications at the time), so I know/feel that there was foul play.  Thankfully, nothing happened and my friend got my home safely.  She said I was acting really weird; too weird to have just been from my two drinks. 

It's not safe out there.  I'm so sorry this happened to you. 

And for people who post crap about blaming the victim, let it be known that I am an extremely diligent person when it comes to keeping my drink close.  I honestly have no idea how it happened.  I am just naturally watching out for this type of thing because I worked in a bar for about 10 years, and I know how shady people can really be. 

flutteringinfl

@larrygaga, holy schmoly. Used to lurk on the Nice Guys subreddit. This takes me back.

larrygaga

flutteringinftmyers said:

@larrygaga, holy schmoly. Used to lurk on the Nice Guys subreddit. This takes me back.

I lurk there now for the laughs. 

chibiyui

I like that the "intellectual" spelled "Neanderthal" wrong. Being an asshole is not a requirement of being an atheist.

While it's a shame hats have been co-opted by douchebags, it does make them easier to spot.

PrettyGirlLost

mrscomposer said:

PrettyGirlLost said:

mrscomposer said:

mrs4everhart said:

I guess you all are the experts at what goes on in bars, not me, despite my nearly 20 years in the business. 

You all are right. People should go through life however they choose then stand back and let victimization wash all over them instead of trying their hardest to avoid fucked up situations as best as possible. Sure.

Meanwhile, I'll be trying to decide how best to deal with the likes of many of you. Because I'm often the one dealing with drunken, unruly young women, attempting to do the right thing after they've been abandoned in the bar by their "friends." Hmm, girl can't tell me her name or where she lives, should I put her in a cab? Hmm, maybe call detox so she can wake up scared, hung over, alone in a strange place with a big ass bill to pay? Do I let her wander off in to the cold, dark night likes she's drunkenly reminded me repeatedly is her right? Do I let the strange guy take her home, since he's truly "only trying to help." Because this is reality. In every town and city, most weekends of the year. It might not be y'all's reality but I invite you to go to the club and not drink. Just watch. Learn. It'll make your head spin.

When you've pulled enough vomit covered chicks out of the bathroom after last call, waited for detox to show up, dealt with the police enough times in date rape cases, assaults and batteries, thefts, brawls, etc., come tell me that people should be able to behave however they'd like with alcohol, consequence free.

Good luck with it. You'll fucking need it.

I AM the police who deals with the date rape cases, assaults and batteries, thefts, brawls, etc.  We are not disputing the fact that many people don't take care of themselves they way they should when they're drinking.  WE ARE disputing the tone of your posts when you make it sound like the OP should've just known better and protected herself more. 

I get it.  It sucks dealing with the same things over and over, every single night.  Lordy lordy, do I get it.  But if you can't muster up a bit of compassion, maybe it's time to find a job that actually lets you have a soul.

Officer Composer, THANK YOU!!!!!!

I can't love this post enough.  Bless you.

And as soon as I read the first line I pictured this, lol

Aww, *blush*.  Thanks PGL!

I had to try really hard not type "I AM the mother-fucking PO-lice..."

Oops, just failed

YEEEEEEES!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPp4qb-phrA

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