See you NEVER!

beethery

I know we already have a how was your weekend thread (here if you want to chime in), but I feel like today is a good day for a small celebration.

After much stirring and incendiary horseshit, the troll has been banned by the Admins. With an IP ban, so she will not be able to start a new account and keep the shit going.

SEE YOU NEVER, EVERHATE.

Any small victories from y'all lately? 

theartistformerlyknownas

Wooo! 

Umm... I didn't punch anyone after finding out that my giant thing of coffee creamer WITH MY NAME ON IT was thrown away out of the office fridge. I had to put powdered creamer in my coffee. That should be a fireable offense. It wasn't even a matter of everything in the fridge getting thrown away - my cream cheese that I forgot in there and must be past expiration lives on. 

climbingsingle

YEEEEEEEEEEEEES. 

KatieinBkln

I just sent a really nice and professional email to a person who has been dicking me around for the past two weeks with shit--making requests, then completely ignoring me when I ask a follow-up question about when she needs it, then resurfacing just in time to say "Oh yeah, I need it today."

I didn't murder her through the computer, so hooray me!

climbingsingle

My small victory is that I haven't told the plant manager to sit on a flaming cactus (please remind me who came up with that? Esstee?) 

holyguacamole79

My brother and I have been getting along really well lately.  He & I have had a rocky past, and we've become really close lately. 

Jells2dot0

Everhate's banning may call for some champagne in the Jells household this evening. Thankfully, I'm there alone so I get the whole bottle to myself!!!

 

 

blabla89

Well thank goodness for that!



Not exactly a victory, but I found out I may be having a little bachelorette party while I'm home for Christmas next week. So excited!

beethery

ClimbingBrideNY said:

My small victory is that I haven't told the plant manager to sit on a flaming cactus (please remind me who came up with that? Esstee?) 

I believe that was @HaileyDancingBear

sarawifenow

Yeessss!

 

KatWAG

This is great and all, but it is not that hard to change your IP address.

carrie0924

I'm only bummed because I wrote a response to her on the post where the poor OP got drugged, and now she won't see it. But I'm still very happy. I haven't even had very long to get to know her, and I couldn't stand her! Congrats to all of you on your small and large victories today!

As far as mine, I made it to work. With clothing on. Only 10 minutes late. And I waited until noon to get on theknot forums. Go me!

beethery

KatWAG said:

This is great and all, but it is not that hard to change your IP address.

That's true, but the admins have ways of figuring stuff out, so they'll get her out if she tries to come back. I hope she just decides to take up a new hobby, like crochet or needlepoint. Literally anything else since she is so unwelcome here.

theartistformerlyknownas

KatWAG said:

This is great and all, but it is not that hard to change your IP address.

I don't know if everyone knows that. And we'd definitely be able to tell right away that it was her if she came back.

steph861

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaas!

chibiyui

Wait, I missed a troll this weekend? Dammit!

KatWAG

So I know this will be an unpopular opinion, but here goes nothing...

I dont know that I believe she was a troll. She is a 100% dumb fuck. But I think there is a chance that she might actually believe the shit she said.

I am just a little wary of banning someone because we dont agree with them.

(I am not justifying or agreeing with what she said, and I also didnt read all of her nonsense)

KatWAG

lolo883 said:

KatWAG said:

This is great and all, but it is not that hard to change your IP address.

I don't know if everyone knows that. And we'd definitely be able to tell right away that it was her if she came back.

Of course, someone would figure it out. But i dont know that that would stop her from trying.

VulgarGirl

I put on tights today with out at all ripping the tights!

That's my small victory.

flutteringinfl

KatWAG said:

So I know this will be an unpopular opinion, but here goes nothing...

I dont know that I believe she was a troll. She is a 100% dumb fuck. But I think there is a chance that she might actually believe the shit she said.

I am just a little wary of banning someone because we dont agree with them.

(I am not justifying or agreeing with what she said, and I also didnt read all of her nonsense)

I also don't know if she was a troll or if she actually believed the garbage she was spewing on the other thread, but I don't disagree with the decision to ban her. She was saying things that were incredibly damaging and promoted a dangerous worldview. I understand the discomfort with censorship, but it's not really censorship or interfering with someone's free speech to say, "What you're saying goes against the principles of this community and we don't want to give you a platform."

beethery

KatWAG said:

So I know this will be an unpopular opinion, but here goes nothing...

I dont know that I believe she was a troll. She is a 100% dumb fuck. But I think there is a chance that she might actually believe the shit she said.

I am just a little wary of banning someone because we dont agree with them.

(I am not justifying or agreeing with what she said, and I also didnt read all of her nonsense)

She'd said at least once that she likes to say things that will piss people off on this site. Disagreeing is one thing, showing up solely to stir shit and start arguments is another.

ohannabelle

beethery said:

I know we already have a how was your weekend thread (here if you want to chime in), but I feel like today is a good day for a small celebration.

After much stirring and incendiary horseshit, the troll has been banned by the Admins. With an IP ban, so she will not be able to start a new account and keep the shit going.

SEE YOU NEVER, EVERHATE.

Any small victories from y'all lately? 

Oh, she'll find a way to come back. As much as I hesitate to play internet psychiatrist, that woman is a walking talking typing example of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Her inability to grasp even simple moral reasoning, her insistence on reality as she perceives it,  her refusal to accept even the simplest logic when it conflicts with her own opinions. 

Because the number one rule with narcissists is that they are ALWAYS right, and they will ALWAYS win the argument. Without logic or ethics, their (flawed) dialectic technique usually involves simply repeating themselves and smoke screening and bullshitting, and basically annoying people into agreeing with them or giving up. But they don't give up, because they're always right. They're simply incapable of grasping the idea that they might be wrong. 

They also (like Mrs. Still Talking Bullshit) have very grandiose and exaggerated ideas of their own cleverness. 

So, she'll be back. Because she can't handle losing. The idea doesn't register in her brain. It's an impossibility. 

I quit responding to her and blocked her long ago. Because it is (Grandma quote) like trying to teach a pig to sing. It simply annoys you and pisses the pig off. 

I just don't deal with narcissists. It is pointless, and I consider them irredeemably flawed and inferior human beings. No time in my life for that degree of crap. 

Good riddance to bad rubbish. I hope it lasts, but I doubt it.

beethery

To clarify, when not wanting to stir shit as a person who works on a bar staff, she could've phrased her statement like: 

"Everyone should be careful with their drinks in the future. I see people leave drinks unattended all the time and I wish they wouldn't, since there is only so much vigilance I can have while I'm working. Hope it was just an abnormal reaction to something and you didn't get drugged." 

Instead, she went on some wild shit about how you'll be called a victim for getting roofied when you're not a victim if you looked away from your drink at any point. Then went on and on and on about it. She'd made statements that domestic violence victims were largely complicit in their own abuse, etc etc. She came off like a fucking monster. There was a loooooot going on there beyond just disagreement.

[Deleted User]

KatWAG

beethery said:

KatWAG said:

So I know this will be an unpopular opinion, but here goes nothing...

I dont know that I believe she was a troll. She is a 100% dumb fuck. But I think there is a chance that she might actually believe the shit she said.

I am just a little wary of banning someone because we dont agree with them.

(I am not justifying or agreeing with what she said, and I also didnt read all of her nonsense)

She'd said at least once that she likes to say things that will piss people off on this site. Disagreeing is one thing, showing up solely to stir shit and start arguments is another.

I agree.

I just think its really weird that she has been around for years. And all she used to do was defend PPDs. But she has always been annoying with her 15 paragraph repsonses. It wasnt until recently that she decided to speak out on other topics. So I dont think she was a troll.

And we have all stirred the pot on here at least a time or two.

KytchynWitche

The wheels of justice turn slowly, but grind exceedingly fine.

Whether she actually believes her posts or not is irrelevant, they're still willful acts perpetrated with the intent of causing dissension, and that makes her a troll. So absolutely what @ohannabelle said - good riddance to bad rubbish!

No personal victories for me at the moment, although DH did come home with a green snuggly hoodie (like the yellow one of his that I keep stealing) and chocolate for me. So yay!

beethery

KatWAG said:

beethery said:

KatWAG said:

So I know this will be an unpopular opinion, but here goes nothing...

I dont know that I believe she was a troll. She is a 100% dumb fuck. But I think there is a chance that she might actually believe the shit she said.

I am just a little wary of banning someone because we dont agree with them.

(I am not justifying or agreeing with what she said, and I also didnt read all of her nonsense)

She'd said at least once that she likes to say things that will piss people off on this site. Disagreeing is one thing, showing up solely to stir shit and start arguments is another.

I agree.

I just think its really weird that she has been around for years. And all she used to do was defend PPDs. But she has always been annoying with her 15 paragraph repsonses. It wasnt until recently that she decided to speak out on other topics. So I dont think she was a troll.

And we have all stirred the pot on here at least a time or two.

I guess, but was the purpose of posting ONLY to stir the pot, every time? Probably not. With her, that's what it became.

theartistformerlyknownas

pinkrevenge said:

Even if Everhate wasn't a troll, she WAS going around from place to place purposely antagonizing people and bragging that she KNEW she was upsetting people and was taking joy in it.

Is this not the definition of a troll? 

Whether someone believes the shit they're spewing or has been a "real" contributor for any length of time does not preclude them from being a troll.

blabla89

beethery said:

To clarify, when not wanting to stir shit as a person who works on a bar staff, she could've phrased her statement like: 

"Everyone should be careful with their drinks in the future. I see people leave drinks unattended all the time and I wish they wouldn't, since there is only so much vigilance I can have while I'm working. Hope it was just an abnormal reaction to something and you didn't get drugged." 

Instead, she went on some wild shit about how you'll be called a victim for getting roofied when you're not a victim if you looked away from your drink at any point. Then went on and on and on about it. She'd made statements that domestic violence victims were largely complicit in their own abuse, etc etc. She came off like a fucking monster. There was a loooooot going on there beyond just disagreement.

If it had been a purely hypothetical discussion that would be different. But it wasn't hypothetical, it was personal and directed at the OP, who had just shared that something particularly horrible may have happened. IMO that's right up there with name calling and I think it's fair for the KGs to intervene.

larrygaga

KatieinBkln

blabla89 said:

beethery said:

To clarify, when not wanting to stir shit as a person who works on a bar staff, she could've phrased her statement like: 

"Everyone should be careful with their drinks in the future. I see people leave drinks unattended all the time and I wish they wouldn't, since there is only so much vigilance I can have while I'm working. Hope it was just an abnormal reaction to something and you didn't get drugged." 

Instead, she went on some wild shit about how you'll be called a victim for getting roofied when you're not a victim if you looked away from your drink at any point. Then went on and on and on about it. She'd made statements that domestic violence victims were largely complicit in their own abuse, etc etc. She came off like a fucking monster. There was a loooooot going on there beyond just disagreement.

If it had been a purely hypothetical discussion that would be different. But it wasn't hypothetical, it was personal and directed at the OP, who had just shared that something particularly horrible may have happened. IMO that's right up there with name calling and I think it's fair for the KGs to intervene.

Yeah, it was just so gross and cruel. She did a similar thing a while back in reply to an old reg who had recently gone through a horrible domestic violence experience. 

Honestly, I am glad this banning happened. Normally I'm all for letting people speak their opinions, but the obvious glee with which she posted hateful, incendiary shit in really personal contexts was not okay with me. I had to stop reading the last thread because she was so hateful and I was getting so worked up.