"Monthiversary"

ashley8918

larrygaga said:

Is this going to be the new ever hart

Ah, yes. I can see it now. Oh joy!

holyguacamole79

We don't really recognize "monthaversaries".  

When H and I first started dating, he kept track of milestones - when he first emailed me, when we had our first Skype date, and when we first met in person (we met online).  He put these anniversaries on our shared Google calendar, so it pops up on those days.  We'll say "aaw, it was 2 years ago that we met in person", but that's about it.

steph861

flantastic said:

AlexaF2014 said:

"Hey, we've been married a month"

*high-five*

Done.

This is how this went.

Aside: I took 6 years of Latin (homeschooled for grade school then my high school had it) and it drove me insane when people would say "X month anniversary" because "You understand that 'anniversary' literally means 'the turning of the year,' right, and is therefore not applicable to months or WEEKS." So OP, thanks for recognizing that, at least.

So we did come up with the appropriate Latin-rooted term - "mensiversary" - because I'm a nerd. Not because we wanted to celebrate them, just to counteract my frustration at others who apparently do.

Now that I'm looking at it, one could definitely use that word for one's period.

fucking boxes!


This is what I'm calling my period from now on.

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ChemFanatic25

My SO and I are not married or engaged but we send texts every month saying "hey, it's xx months" BUT that's if we can remember the date. I think we officially chose March 20th but we hung out the day before that, he asked me on a date the day before that, umm we slept together the day after . . . yeah so I have no idea. 

Either way, to each their own. You want to celebrate "month-versary" then go for it. Don't want to, then don't. Not going to interfere with my life one way or another so I could care less. 

VulgarGirl

butterscotchjbeans @larrygaga awww Thank you. Buy no, there are more girls here deeply in love with their guys.

And some of the women here are pretty deeply in love with their women. We aim for inclusivity, remember. Don't forget the homos. We're the ones who like wallets.

Lesbian love is the deepest love btw. Because science.

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Maggie0829

butterscotchjbeans said:

I really can't stand cutesy newlywed bullshit.  If you didn't celebrate every month you were together before you were married then why start once you are married?  And why then limit it to a year?  And do you really need to celebrate being married a month?  Was it that difficult to make it through those first 30 days that a celebration is necessary?

Small milestones. I'm not making yall do it, hope you are not understanding wrong.

Well no shit Sherlock.  You know how this place works.  You post something and people respond with their opinions.  If you want to do the bullshit monthiversary then go ahead but don't be surprised that others think it is dumb.

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Fran1985

butterscotchjbeans said:

Fran1985 said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

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decembergrl2014 said:

For the first year he gave me flowers every month on our anniversary. We stopped that after a year. Technically yesterday was our 2 year anniversary, but now that we're married I think we will just celebrate our wedding anniversary.

Yes, I think stop celebrating after 1 year is cool, and then just keep it simple as a date night that is much necessary !  

Monthly leading up to the year is sweet, and maybe juvenile like others have said. But we are so in love that we fall in the corny as hell catergory.

Yeah, you're probably more in love than anyone else on this board

@larrygaga awww Thank you. Buy no, there are more girls here deeply in love with their guys.

Pretty sure @larrygaga was being sarcastic...

no way! really? she never is!

Well you have really failed on catching it before so just making sure. Also it wasn't "wallet confusion." that's worse than saying "I'm so sorry you took offense that." You were really the only one confused in that whole thread.

luckya23

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

beethery

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

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theartistformerlyknownas

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

So everyone here needs to change in order to accommodate you? Mmhmm good luck with that. 

You could just, ya know, leave.

beethery

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

On the OG account that you used to be somewhat cool on, you said you were from Brazil. You can lie to people all you want, but stop playing this surprised bullshit when you get called out.

Know what would be awesome? If you cut the shit. Own up to it, or shut the fuck up.

Bye boo.

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theartistformerlyknownas

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

So everyone here needs to change in order to accommodate you? Mmhmm good luck with that. 

You could just, ya know, leave.

read again

Leave again.

Fran1985

butterscotchjbeans said:

Fran1985 said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

Fran1985 said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

decembergrl2014 said:

For the first year he gave me flowers every month on our anniversary. We stopped that after a year. Technically yesterday was our 2 year anniversary, but now that we're married I think we will just celebrate our wedding anniversary.

Yes, I think stop celebrating after 1 year is cool, and then just keep it simple as a date night that is much necessary !  

Monthly leading up to the year is sweet, and maybe juvenile like others have said. But we are so in love that we fall in the corny as hell catergory.

Yeah, you're probably more in love than anyone else on this board

@larrygaga awww Thank you. Buy no, there are more girls here deeply in love with their guys.

Pretty sure @larrygaga was being sarcastic...

no way! really? she never is!

Well you have really failed on catching it before so just making sure. Also it wasn't "wallet confusion." that's worse than saying "I'm so sorry you took offense that." You were really the only one confused in that whole thread.

No, I haven't. Different levels of sarcasm. 

Well, you can take it how you want, I wasn't apologizing to you. 

You weren't apologizing to anyone. Thats my point

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theartistformerlyknownas

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

On the OG account that you used to be somewhat cool on, you said you were from Brazil. You can lie to people all you want, but stop playing this surprised bullshit when you get called out.

Know what would be awesome? If you cut the shit. Own up to it, or shut the fuck up.

Bye boo.

You are a compulsive liar. Eeeeek 

That sounds an awful lot like a personal attack. You know those can get you banned.

southernbelle0915

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

Mainly because I'm a geography and culture person, but also because facts.... Peru and Portugal are not the same thing. So now I'm confused.

beans - where are you actually from? And how did you learn to speak Portuguese? 

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VulgarGirl

Fran1985 said:

Well you have really failed on catching it before so just making sure. Also it wasn't "wallet confusion." that's worse than saying "I'm so sorry you took offense that." You were really the only one confused in that whole thread. 

I tried to fix the boxes: 

One time I really did have some wallet confusion. I was super drunk and couldn't figure out how to get cash out of my wallet and kept asking my friend to help me. So he asked me why I wanted to get money out and I said to buy more drinks, he said I didn't need to do that and I said ok and put my wallet away.

southernbelle0915

butterscotchjbeans said:

southernbelle0915 said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

Mainly because I'm a geography and culture person, but also because facts.... Peru and Portugal are not the same thing. So now I'm confused.

beans - where are you actually from? And how did you learn to speak Portuguese? 

Peru and Brazil are in south america, they are bordering countries. When I traveled to the forest there were Brazilians visiting Peru so I picked up on their conversation since it similar to Spanish. When I moved here, I studied an online class and now I can speak it fluently. Grammar is still difficult, but getting there with practice. 

ETA : From Lima, Peru

Ah, ok. Yea Portuguese is super similar to Spanish. When I was living in Spain, I could understand people from Portugal (couldn't talk to them, however). Same with Italian. Thanks for clarifying.

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beethery

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

luckya23 said:

Am I the only one who feels this may be a different jbeans?

With the other siggy gif person, I never noticed any "I'm so new to this country" stuff and coherent posts initially didn't seem to be a problem... You know, when everyone liked her.

I'm so confused!!

It's the same person. She'll even lie to you and tell you it's the same account.

She also used to say she was from Brazil. Now, it's Peru.

LOL the fact I speak Portuguese, doesn't mean I am from Brazil -or Portugal-

Damn girl, really need to learn to let go. 

On the OG account that you used to be somewhat cool on, you said you were from Brazil. You can lie to people all you want, but stop playing this surprised bullshit when you get called out.

Know what would be awesome? If you cut the shit. Own up to it, or shut the fuck up.

Bye boo.

You are a compulsive liar. Eeeeek 

Mods and admins have the receipts on your thirsty ass, and other members BESIDES US remember all your bullshit. You want to keep this shit up, you go right ahead. You are painting yourself in a very small corner and I think you'll find it hard to climb the fucking wall.

You really ought to get an excel sheet or some shit so you can keep all your lies straight.

My story ain't changed, and they can back me up on shit. Nobody will back you up on a god damn thing but Doey, who I imagine you've told her all kind of made-up stupid sob stories as well. Keep lying on me, we all know what you're doing.

KatWAG

butterscotchjbeans said:

We didn't celebrate months while dating either. But we thought we would do a special "something" every month leading to our anniversary. I have no idea if he has and idea set for the 18th, but being so close to Christmas maybe going to see the lights and coffee while walking around would be sweet. I most definitely don't want to do dinner or presents every month. 

This sounds exhausting.

ETA: Should have read the whole thread before posting.

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