"Monthiversary"

plainjane0415

butterscotchjbeans said:

We didn't celebrate months while dating either. But we thought we would do a special "something" every month leading to our anniversary. I have no idea if he has and idea set for the 18th, but being so close to Christmas maybe going to see the lights and coffee while walking around would be sweet. I most definitely don't want to do dinner or presents every month. 

How about just have a special date night once a month or something?  I think the monthiversary sounds pretty childish.

mrsk616

we probably wont.... people who post that they have been together for so many months is so annoying. come on grow up and do year anniversary. a lot less dates to remember.  

KatWAG

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

luckya23

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

AFAIK, she was normal and even liked until one day when she decided to hurry up and get married like that week and got all kinds of wild when people were like "Uh, why rush?"  And then she GBCK'd.

SmileDamnit

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

hellosweetie1015

...so we don't even know when our dating anniversary is. Sometime fairly soon after Valentine's Day, if you go with when we first hung out, but our relationship had identity issues until pretty much the day he proposed. So there isn't really a day to celebrate, monthly or yearly or bicentennially or anything. 

We probably won't do monthiversaries (or mensiversaries) after we get married; we don't need a reason to go out right now, we just go. It may change to a standing date night type thing when we start procreating and have to plan that shit for sanity's sake, but I don't see it being "oh, hey, it's our monthiversary! Let's go be fancy and drink champagne and celebrate our monthiversary!" I see it being more, "Hey, let's give our little partial clones to the grandparents who will give them the least amount of candy and go do something that doesn't involve Happy Meals."

teddygirl9

I celebrate the half year lol. 'Its our half-iversary!' I'm not sure why, I just always remember the day. And by celebrate, I mean, mention it. We don't go out to dinner or anything for it.

ashley8918

luckya23 said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

AFAIK, she was normal and even liked until one day when she decided to hurry up and get married like that week and got all kinds of wild when people were like "Uh, why rush?"  And then she GBCK'd.

Also, like a week before she decided to get quickie married, she thought her FI was cheating.

And then, when people were all "chick, what's the rush? Are you sure about this? You just thought he was cheating. We are concerned... slow your roll." SHe made up an admittedly fake pregrnancy to justify moving the wedding up to IMMEDIATELY.

People did not respond well to her made up pregnance, so she took her ball and went home... and then decided to come back shortly thereafter and pretend like nothing happened.

beethery

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama. I missed it.

She had an account, said she was taking a break to seek therapy. Came back and said I'm getting married in 3 weeks!!!!! I need TONS AND TONS OF SUPPORT AND GUIDANCE but its not because I'm getting married in less than a month to a guy that gives me cheating paranoia, its because I'm having a backyard wedding!!!!

Everyone was concerned and had questions, which she started getting pissed that nobody was giving her in-depth backyard wedding planning info. Then she started acting real shitty, and began nagging Lynda for an account deletion (something only KGs can provide). Lynda tried to comply by deleting her content.

She came back to read what people were saying about her, told Doey it was because her account was still active. That doesn't make any sense because if you don't want to be part of a community anymore, you flounce and stay the fuck out if you are not thirsty for attention, and then started commenting again! She then kept nagging Lynda, no KGs were around, so Lynda banned her. 

So she logged in on this account that had a different username, messaged KP, and then changed the username to Butterscotchjbeans again, and began the thirst anew.

She likes to ask asinine questions, get crabby when people aren't into the shit she's trying to perpetuate, and then call me a liar.

I provided her the link to her now-deleted account that she'd been using before, and she still calls me a liar. It's good for a chuckle, honestly.

cupcait927

teddygirl9 said:

I celebrate the half year lol. 'Its our half-iversary!' I'm not sure why, I just always remember the day. And by celebrate, I mean, mention it. We don't go out to dinner or anything for it.

H celebrates half birthdays. Or mine anyway. Our birthday are almost exactly 6 months apart (24th and the 25th) so he started a tradition of buying my flowers on my half birthday. Then we celebrate his birthday the next day. I'm a terrible wife because I never remember to do anything silly or special for him on his half birthday. It's kind of dumb but hey, I get flowers out of it.

KatWAG

ashley8918 said:

luckya23 said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

AFAIK, she was normal and even liked until one day when she decided to hurry up and get married like that week and got all kinds of wild when people were like "Uh, why rush?"  And then she GBCK'd.

Also, like a week before she decided to get quickie married, she thought her FI was cheating.

And then, when people were all "chick, what's the rush? Are you sure about this? You just thought he was cheating. We are concerned... slow your roll." SHe made up an admittedly fake pregrnancy to justify moving the wedding up to IMMEDIATELY.

People did not respond well to her made up pregnance, so she took her ball and went home... and then decided to come back shortly thereafter and pretend like nothing happened.

Time to go digging through some old post history...... be back in a few.

theartistformerlyknownas

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

larrygaga

Fran1985 said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

decembergrl2014 said:

For the first year he gave me flowers every month on our anniversary. We stopped that after a year. Technically yesterday was our 2 year anniversary, but now that we're married I think we will just celebrate our wedding anniversary.

Yes, I think stop celebrating after 1 year is cool, and then just keep it simple as a date night that is much necessary !  

Monthly leading up to the year is sweet, and maybe juvenile like others have said. But we are so in love that we fall in the corny as hell catergory.

Yeah, you're probably more in love than anyone else on this board @larrygaga awww Thank you. Buy no, there are more girls here deeply in love with their guys.
Pretty sure @larrygaga was being sarcastic...

I'm never sarcastic

KatWAG

Thanks for the update team. I realize that this all happened when I as on my Knot break (my kid was sick, I didnt actually want to take a break)

Bummer I missed it. I love when people GBCK and then come crawling back like thing happened.

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KatWAG

@lolo883 LOVING the new pictures in your siggy.

plainjane0415

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

Seriously @ butterscotchjbeans move along. Your time here is up.

theartistformerlyknownas

butterscotchjbeans said:

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

I think you should be more cautious about the giant fucking bitch slap you're going to get from karma before you try to talk shit about my family.

I can post wherever the fuck I want. And nothing about my post was "making fun" of anyone suffering miscarriages. I simply stated what had happened within the realm of TK.

This is worth the goddamn warning. GO FUCK YOURSELF.

beethery

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.

Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.

lurkergirl

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

So do karmic threats count as making threats to posters?

Girl, the drama llama bullshit can be forgivable.  But when I heard you fucked with lolo, that was it.  GOOD DAY!

ShellD13

phira said:

I don't really care what people do or don't celebrate within their own relationship, but I do hate when people say "one month anniversary" because I'm really annoying and I'll push my imaginary glasses against the bridge of my nose and say, "UM excuse me but an anniversary means it's an annually occurring date."

Too funny!  H and I went camping with his parents for a week this summer one month following the wedding.  So MIL kept pulling out a mini photo album to show all of her friends that were also camping with us and telling everyone it was our one month anniversary today...  While it was very sweet, H and I both corrected her Anniversary = Annual.

As for significant dates, The only reason I will remember our dating anniversary is because it is the day before our wedding day.  We would have liked to have gotten married on our "official" dating anniversary but it was a Friday the 13th this year so that was a no go for my extremely superstitious H, so we opted for the following Saturday.  I say "official" because H and I started dating about 4 months before I met his kids so our "official" dating anniversary was the weekday following my introduction to his kids.  He sent me a really wonderful (but sappy) text asking me to be his GF.

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VulgarGirl

butterscotchjbeans said:

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

What. The. Fuck.

You don't have to like Lolo. You don't have to like anyone. Ever. But this shit is just fucked up and fucking mean.

You posted about being afraid your DH was cheating, that you were pregnant but then lol you weren't and were just trying to shut people up, and that he had a felony. And you can have a felony DUI/DWI fyi. 

It's not fucking Lolo's fault you can't remember what you said one week to the next. Fine you really were pregnant but didn't know at the time, you got over the cheating shit, and it wasn't a felony DWI, you were mistaken. That's fine. Say that shit. Don't fucking wish ill on Lolo's potential future offspring and fucking talk shit about her family (even if she has shared it here). That's fucked up.

theartistformerlyknownas

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.

Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.

But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?

YOU WERE THE ONE WHO SAID HE HAD A FELONY. I have never said "BSCbeans H is a felon!" I said that YOU SAID HE HAD A FELONY ON HIS RECORD. KEEP YOUR MOTHERFUCKING LIES STRAIGHT.

ashley8918

butterscotchjbeans said:

But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?

YOU FUCKING CALLED HIM A FELON when you brought this up under you first BSCbeans profile. Als "felon" is not an insult or attack of any kind, unlike your bullshit, irrelevant comment about Lolo's family (which was obviously intended to rile people up). 

KatWAG

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.

Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.

But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?

In my opinion drinking and driving should be a felony. Only stupid fucking people drink and drive.

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plainjane0415

KatWAG said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.

Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.

But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?

In my opinion drinking and driving should be a felony. Only stupid fucking people drink and drive.

THIS.

levioosa

butterscotchjbeans said:

beethery said:

butterscotchjbeans said:

lolo883 said:

SmileDamnit said:

KatWAG said:

 

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!

Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

Did I miss anything?

Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.

First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 

Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.

Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.

But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?

1. That is not even remotely the same thing.

2.  YOU were the one who originally said it was a felony.  So we're not "stretching" very far to allude to something you originally said. 

3.  Felonies ARE given out for DUIs/DWI.  My brother is now considered a "felon" because of his DUI.  I don't know why you act like they're totally not possible to get for the crime, because it is.  So once again, not exactly a stretch to guess that he's probably a felon for the DUI/DWI.  Especially when you originally stated that he was before changing your story and GBCKing.

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