I have 1 moh and 5 bridesmaids and my fiance has 1 best man and 3 groomsmen. My flower girls are very shy so I brought this idea to my fiance: have my sister walk down with her twin daughters, the flower girls, and have my other sister walk down with her son, the ring bearer. My fiancé said no because he's afraid everyone will think he can't find enough people, but I don't want him to choose people just to have the same number of people. What should I do?
Re: We have an uneven number of bridesmaids and groomsmen, help!
The 3 children may walk together just ahead of the 2 women, or 1 child with mom, other 2 with mom.
Sometimes it looks kind of raggedy with a woman in a big gown holding a bouquet leaning down to a child who is nearly out of sight over seat tops. Twice.
Try it both ways. If any pictures are taken as you emerge from the ceremony area or church, 1 girl on either side of the boy, with the 2 moms side by side behind them, makes the women and gowns a nice background for the kids, and a very nice keepsake picture for the kids and their families.
That seem way too extreme to tell him to go eff themselves after being together for 7 years. I really don't appreciate your comment.
You stated in your OP that your fiance was "afraid everyone will think he can't find enough people." That implies he is concerned with how things look (aka appearances.) As I have already stated but will repeat for you again, I wasn't seriously suggesting you kick him to the curb. Once again, it concerns me that you can't grasp that. I can take criticism just fine when it is warranted (and preferably spelled correctly and using proper grammar so I can actually follow it), and I didn't dish anything I couldn't take. In the future, I suggest your replies/comebacks make sense if you would like them to hold any weight.
Everyone as in family. We don't care what our friends think and that's what this stupid day for, family. And I suggest that in the future, if you want more clarification, ask before making stupid petty comments. As you can see everyone else knew what I was asking, except for you.
Are you seriously going to pull the grammar nazi card. Your more pathetic than I thought. You do realize humans aren't perfect.
Just an FYI, I was fine before your second comment. Again my reply to your comment was my opinion and the fact that you had to "justify" your original comment shows that you can't take criticism.
Do not reply again, I'm done with this.
So what if his family thinks he has less friends than you? Are they going to write him out of theit wills because of it?
This is such a non-issue
I only call it a stupid day because the wedding is a formality for the families. My fiance and I would rather go to the court house and get married but our families would not have any of that.
I get caving to family pressure, but if you don't give a fuck and it's just a formality, stop worrying.
Or if it's stressing you out that much, call the wedding off, elope and send marriage announcements.