Give me Knottie strength

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KatieinBkln said:

Every single day I hear another thing validating our decision to have 1 maid of honor and 1 best man and no one else in the BP. I can totally see why this shit is stressful and annoying.

Out of your hands now, JC! Take some comfort in that, I guess. 

Same here!

JCbride2015

jacques27 said:

JCbride2015 said:

jacques27 said:

OK, the first time you posted I said ok on the reminder text.

You are now officially overthinking this and feeling badly about something that should not be eliciting this level of existential angst.  Go find an ASPCA commercial with sad puppy eyes and a Sarah McLachlan song playing and feel badly about that if you must feel badly about something.

• You reminded her.
• You gave her a date.
• She's an adult.
• Her calling the salon to find out she missed the deadline isn't going to send her into a suicidal tailspin requiring a 72 hour hold (at least it shouldn't - I hope not!). 
• She'll call on Monday (but let's face it, if she hasn't called by now, is she really going to call on Monday) and then go "Damn, I'm a dumbass.  Ok, can I put in an order separately?"  And then she'll have to pay for shipping or go find it on her own.  Oh well.  (See also: She's an adult.)
  
• The salon is a business who will take her money and place a separate order because businesses like making money. 

If you don't take Lolo up on the offer, then I'll contact the darn salon for you.

Hmmmm I'm a little confused.  Haven't posted on this thread in a few days so I don't know what you're referring to.  I have no angst.

I sent her a reminder text and she made an appointment on Wednesday.  I'm a little annoyed it's holding up the orders another week, but they'll arrive with 5-ish weeks for alterations, so I think it's okay.

Weren't you the one who posted a few weeks ago about whether it was ok to send her a reminder or would that be too bridezilla-ish?  I'm pretty sure I responded to that post.  And earlier in this thread you said "I posted a few weeks ago..." and then "I'll feel terrible if she calls..." and how you felt like you were being "bitchy" by wanting to tell the salon owner to go ahead.

If that wasn't you and I'm thinking of another poster's thread(s), then my bad.

Oh yes, that was me.  I was following up on an older post.  I don't think I was expressing Sarah Mclaughlin levels of misery.  Something about your comment here seemed so exasperated and overblown I thought you must be confused with some other poster's history.