We have invited a guest, S, to our wedding. She had been dating someone for awhile so we were going to obviously invite him as her guest. At some point we had talked about "plus 1-ing" her with her because she was in a serious relationship(casually but in hindsight shouldn't have been done?).They broke up before before invites were sent. When I sent out invitations I didn't "plus 1" her because they had broken up at this point.
The invitation was no longer "plus 1" but she cornered my fiance(I was told after we left) at church and asked since it was mentioned before about a plus 1 if she could invite another girl from church because that girl really wanted to come but wasn't invited. I feel like this is an etiquette no-no on her part but partly ours. My fiance is pretty much the nicest person I know and it was an awkward situation so he said that would be fine.
At this point there is nothing I can do about that. My fiance said yes and I get that. The girl who wasn't invited is now coming. I've come to terms with this for the most part. It still really annoys me for a few reasons. Why would this girl want to come if she wasn't invited? What would possess someone to invite people to someone else's wedding? Why ask my fiance alone and not both of us? Why is my fiance so nice?(Haha I'm just kidding!)
Anyway, at this point, should I say something? Do something? Forget about it? Talk to the not-invited guest? (I see her twice a week and the only thing we've said to each other in the past year is "hello"). Talk to friend who invited her and tell her to quit inviting people(hah)?
What would you do?