I'm a little hurt.

loveislouder

I was on facebook and posted a status about how I was proud of the star of My Big Fat Fabulous Life and how she was living her life by her own terms and was proud of her body. I literally  wish I felt that good about myself.

My ex's sister in law commented - "You fat people are just lazy. You sit around all day and eat McDonalds and then wonder why your (sic) so fat."

Do people actually think that? Do they really think I'm just lazy and eat all day? Because I exercise. I've been working really hard.

climbingsingle

WUT. Are you fucking serious!? She is an asshole, and I hope you told her so. 

sassyfrass2014

What a dick move. Keep living well and rocking it out. People who comment negatively on a status like that are just looking for attention. 

KatieinBkln

What a bitch!

Honestly, if I were you I'd be more than a "little" hurt and a hell of a lot PISSED.

Sadly, people DO think the way your ex's SIL (side note: ex's SIL seems to be a relationship you can easily nix out of your life) does. But those people? Are either misinformed, assholes, or both. Sure, some overweight people eat only fast food and don't move. But there are many, many others who don't touch McDonald's, exercise daily, and still struggle. A person who cannot wrap her tiny brain around that fact is not a person worth interacting with.

Leave a note in the comments telling her you're blocking her because she can't keep hurtful attitudes to herself. Then do it.

theycallmelinz

Um, defriend that bitch. And then sign her email up for loads of porn or some annoying shit.  What a fucking seeyounexttuesday. 

novella1186

What a bitch! She had no right to say that, and it just goes to show how dumb and ignorant she is, not to mention how much of a rude bitch she is. 

pinkcow13

What the actual fuck? What a stupid, stupid, bitch. How dare she throw judgement like that. Just because someone is a size 2, it doesn't mean they aren't a lazy slob "who eats Mcdonald's all day". That is disgusting.

Not all people think like that narrow minded twat brain. Do not let her nasty, pathetic words get to you. Just continue to do what you're doing.

AprilH81

It takes a lot for me to unfriend someone, but that would do it.

That sounds like a comment from an anonymous user on a yahoo article, not something a "friend" would say.

That is just horrible that she would say something like that.

ohannabelle

loveislouder said:

I was on facebook and posted a status about how I was proud of the star of My Big Fat Fabulous Life and how she was living her life by her own terms and was proud of her body. I literally  wish I felt that good about myself.

My ex's sister in law commented - "You fat people are just lazy. You sit around all day and eat McDonalds and then wonder why your (sic) so fat."

Do people actually think that? Do they really think I'm just lazy and eat all day? Because I exercise. I've been working really hard.

Arrogant rude and ignorant people think that.

That's just ugly. She should be ashamed, but probably isn't smart enough.

maeday2

Please don't let her get to you!

She has no right to say that. I'd rather be "fat" and "lazy" than a rude bitch. 

novella1186

She can imagine overweight people in whatever ignorant way she wants. 

I imagine bitches like her spending her day kicking puppies and guzzling cheap Chardonnay while she shops online for a new vibrator cuz no one loves her evil bitch ass. 

slothiegal

What the fuck?

Don't let her toxicity get to you.  Anyone who has more than two brain cells to rub together knows that that's a bunch of bullshit.  Weight is determined by a lot of factors, and you can't always tell a person's lifestyle from the outside.

snarkymaid

Wow. She sucks. I would be pushing the unfriend button, personally, because she sounds like a downright nasty bitch who doesn't deserve your friendship.

I share your feelings about the girl on that show (also, Babs is my spirit animal). I'm not fat, but that girl has way more confidence than I do. I'm sorry this bitch made you feel badly about yourself. As long as YOU are happy with you, that should be all that matters. 

Couggal12

Um, wow. I don't even know what to say to that.

I also agree with unfriending that bitch. 

BrandNewJ

That's terrible. Seems to me like she's looking for a fight, don't give in! Unfriend that bitch and move on with your happy life. She obviously doesn't have one if she needs to shit on other people.

VulgarGirl

That fucking cunt faced bitch can go eat a bag of shit.

I hate this, if you're fat you're a lazy asshole but if you're skinny it's all good mentality. 

I'm not overweight. I never really have been. This is not because I eat salad and work out all the time. This is because I have a fast metabolism. I had the shittiest diet of anyone I knew for the longest time. I counted far away parking spaces as working out. But hey, I was a skinny so no one said shit to me.

One of my friends is a larger woman. Girlfriend eats crazy healthy, works out 2 hours a day, teaches an aerobics class and is still technically overweight (per BMI charts). And people have called her lazy to her face. We were getting ice cream together one day and this total stranger stops, looks at her and goes "You people disgust me, you're fucking stuffing your face when you should be working out", my friend stopped me from throat punching the bitch because she's a good person. And told me she deals with assholes like that all the time. She said she figures their life must be really sad to have to go around and bully total strangers about their food choices. 

I don't care why you have the body you have. It's your fucking body, not mine. I don't have a right to comment on it. I love stories of people (of all body sizes) owning their fabulousness and working it for all it is worth. Cause look, we're only here one time and not for very long. So own it and be happy. And let the shit stains of the world fuck each other over. 

VulgarGirl

theycallmelinz said:

Um, defriend that bitch. And then sign her email up for loads of porn or some annoying shit.  What a fucking seeyounexttuesday. 

Sign her up for Jenny Craig, WW, 3 FatChicks, every weight loss item you can think of. 

Cause ya know, she needs to loose a few pounds. (I'm not just going to hell, I have a penthouse on the lake)

falsara

UNFRIEND!!!!!  She's a raging bitch who needs to get her head out of her ass.  People like her are the reason I prefer not to deal with people at all.  

You do you!!!!! 

mikenberger

loveislouder said:

I was on facebook and posted a status about how I was proud of the star of My Big Fat Fabulous Life and how she was living her life by her own terms and was proud of her body. I literally  wish I felt that good about myself.

My ex's sister in law commented - "You fat people are just lazy. You sit around all day and eat McDonalds and then wonder why your (sic) so fat."

Do people actually think that? Do they really think I'm just lazy and eat all day? Because I exercise. I've been working really hard.

My God, how I wish I were sitting around doing nothing but eating McDonalds. And catching up on RHOA. 

Some people are just assholes. Plain and simple. And since you said EX... unfriend that bitch. People like that are unhappy with their own life and spew venom on everybody else trying to do better for themselves. She's lazy as fuck not to fix her own life and instead being an anchor on everybody else.

Send her a McDonalds gift card. 

levioosa

Wow.  What a bitch.  I'd be livid.  I'd be tempted to throw out a "I'd rather be happy and fat than a miserable, judgy raving bitch." 

ETA: I wouldn't actually say that because facebook drama is not worth the time that comment would bring. 

Fuck people, man.  My Mom has been making a lot of comments at me lately too.  I get it, Mom, I'm fat right now.  You don't need to keep rubbing in how bad I look.  You don't think I know none of my clothes fit?  Also, the boobs are here to stay, so slut shaming me for having them won't get you anywhere.  It's so frustrating.  *Hugs, to you, OP*

loveislouder

Thank you guys for the kind words. I unfriended her already but I still feel like crap about myself.

mikenberger

loveislouder said:

Thank you guys for the kind words. I unfriended her already but I still feel like crap about myself.

Don't let her win. You're worth more than that. *hugs*

anjemon

MagicInk said:

That fucking cunt faced bitch can go eat a bag of shit.

I hate this, if you're fat you're a lazy asshole but if you're skinny it's all good mentality. 

I'm not overweight. I never really have been. This is not because I eat salad and work out all the time. This is because I have a fast metabolism. I had the shittiest diet of anyone I knew for the longest time. I counted far away parking spaces as working out. But hey, I was a skinny so no one said shit to me.

One of my friends is a larger woman. Girlfriend eats crazy healthy, works out 2 hours a day, teaches an aerobics class and is still technically overweight (per BMI charts). And people have called her lazy to her face. We were getting ice cream together one day and this total stranger stops, looks at her and goes "You people disgust me, you're fucking stuffing your face when you should be working out", my friend stopped me from throat punching the bitch because she's a good person. And told me she deals with assholes like that all the time. She said she figures their life must be really sad to have to go around and bully total strangers about their food choices. 

I don't care why you have the body you have. It's your fucking body, not mine. I don't have a right to comment on it. I love stories of people (of all body sizes) owning their fabulousness and working it for all it is worth. Cause look, we're only here one time and not for very long. So own it and be happy. And let the shit stains of the world fuck each other over. 

Quoted for truth.

This is exactly me and my roommate (except I'm not as good at working out as your friend). Sometimes it just works out like that. But weight it not just determined by how much you exercise/what you eat.

I'm going to echo all the other PP's who say to unfriend that bitch. That is not something you need in your life. And keep on keeping on. You know how hard you're working and how much it's worth.

thisismynickname2

loveislouder said:

Thank you guys for the kind words. I unfriended her already but I still feel like crap about myself.

I'm so sorry this happened. But the best revenge is a life well lived. She obviously has her own major issues. 

KatieinBkln

loveislouder said:

Thank you guys for the kind words. I unfriended her already but I still feel like crap about myself.

I am so sorry. I don't blame you for feeling sad; that was such a low blow on her part.

But I just want to throw it out there: Your intrinsic worth as a person has nothing to do with your body. NOTHING. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

levioosa

loveislouder said:

Thank you guys for the kind words. I unfriended her already but I still feel like crap about myself.

Fuck her.  You are beautiful and kind.  Don't let such a negative person bring you down with her. 

rockin30ish

Don't feel like crap about yourself. All that does is make her feel better. Don't give her what she wants. Fuck her!

novella1186

loveislouder said:

Thank you guys for the kind words. I unfriended her already but I still feel like crap about myself.

I'm sorry she made you feel bad  

People like her are not even worth your thoughts. You are awesome. She's a total fucking loser. TK loves you!  

beachyone15

MagicInk said:

I don't care why you have the body you have. It's your fucking body, not mine. I don't have a right to comment on it. I love stories of people (of all body sizes) owning their fabulousness and working it for all it is worth. Cause look, we're only here one time and not for very long. So own it and be happy. And let the shit stains of the world fuck each other over. 

QFT. I think too many times people (myself included) forget this. It's a good reminder to not let yourself get caught up in someone else's negativity and malice. People like that aren't happy anyway. They can't be with that attitude! OP, just know that what she thinks means nothing. Not worth your time. Your family and friends love you for you!

Jen4948

I think you the right thing in unfriending this bitch. Don't let her be the judge of your self-worth.

You're a wonderful person. Just keep reminding yourself if that.

bethsmiles

Don't let her make you feel bad about yourself. A few extra pounds is always something you can change (if you want, you can rock whatever body you've got) but being a bitch is something she'll be forever. She should feel bad about that because how you treat people is way more important than how you look.