So we're purchasing our own beer & wine for the wedding, which is totally fine and we're excited about it (our family is made up almost entirely of beer snobs and wine-os, hehe)
almost our entire family.
My brother really dislikes both beer and wine, and while we will have non-alcoholic drinks available (sodas, juices, water), I was wondering about an idea I've heard float around these boards:
I know BYOB is not an option, got that, but if we bought, like, one bottle of liquor that's really meant for him and left it with the bartender to spike his juice or something, would that be inconsiderate and rude to other guests? As long as my bro and the bartender touch base with me/FI saying "yes, this is the guy, please give him the booze that's under your table". It sounds so shady to me, but I want to please my brother.
If it's super-tacky we won't do it, but I wanted to know what the general consensus was.