Just recently I was talking with one of my friends about a big vacation my husband and I have planned this summer. When the friend asked if we were splitting the costs evenly, I was a little surprised, and answered that we have shared accounts so really my money is his money and visa versa. That got me thinking...just out of curiosity, do you have shared accounts or separate? My friend IS married btw, and she told me they have all separate accounts, but now they are expecting, so I'm not sure if that will change things for her.