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FMIL

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Re: FMIL

  • Stop inviting her. Your FMIL sounds very similar to mine. I was hurt at first that she didn't seem to care and was even rude at times. At first I invited her to everything because I wanted the planning to be fun for her, my mom and my FSIL (who is a bridesmaid). When she acted like she didn't care it did hurt but I quickly realized that she was not going to change and I wasn't either. I stopped talking to her about wedding stuff and found myself to be much happier. Focus on the planning with those who are interested and supportive and you'll be much happier. Hopefully after the wedding, when things calm down, your relationship with her will be good. Both of you are probably stressed during this time so just focus on not letting that stress get the best of you and possibly affecting your relationship with her in the future. 
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