This is worse than Speshul Snowflake.
A coworker of FSIL is sounding off on her FB page about her baby shower. She is ranting to her guests that showed up and saying nasty really nasty things to "no shows" and using guilt to get gifts from them because they were not there.
"I WILL N E V E R GO OUT MY WAY TO INVITE PEOPLE I BARELY SEE ANYWAY TO A PERSONAL EVENT !!" & "Didn't mean to offend anyone but I know who at least TRIED to come n who didn't "
Some people are commenting that they were not invited and she posted her address saying they can send things her way. She posted all of the things she got as gifts saying how her "squad has her locked and loading with more gifts coming."
She planned the event herself and she did her "thank you cards" in the comments. I can not get over how she invited people she barely knows to her baby shower trying to gift grab.
Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.
Re: NWR: This Baby Shower Rant on FB
Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.
Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.
*Note: I'm not saying people 22 or younger act like that as a rule, just that in general I give a pass to those who do act like that AND are that age or under because of the tendency to still be a little self-absorbed at that stage of life still and lacking a non-sheltered life experience. Usually those who are like that when they are younger get a little self-awareness once it comes time to job search after school, realize it's not that easy out there, and are introduced to a bigger and more diverse population who all have their own problems and baggage.
Jeez, how did people respond? The ones that were invited but didn't attend? This sounds like craziness.
I had a former friend do something similar. Her SIL threw her a baby shower. I wasn't able to make it because I had a wedding the same day at the same time. I let the hostess know (it was a surprise and my friend didn't know about the shower) and I planned to bring her a gift the next day or so. Well, the day after her shower, she posted on Facebook calling out all the people that couldn't make it. She basically said anyone that couldn't be there was an asshole and she now knew who her friends were. She said some other things that were pretty disgusting. So I returned her gift and stopped speaking to her.
They felt bad someone posted they thought it was next month side she isn't due to June or late May. So far nobody has called her out on her outburst. Everybody is given in and telling her they are sending her stuff and asking for the registry.
@climbingwife She did the exact same thing. She posted she KNOWS who her real friends are and she will never invite people she barely knows. I still can't get out that she thinks her baby is the most important thing to other people and how she wants gifts from people.
I got an update; people who came to the shower that didn't bring gifts are suppose to bring gifts. Well she didn't use people she used her slang N word that she is always using.
Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.