So I have been planning my wedding for the past ten months and I am sick of it. I still have four months to go and I personally can not stomach dealing with all the family drama and opinions for much longer. I thought weddings were a joyous occasion but our families have made this process very difficult. My family members have been making really nasty remarks, my FH's family has decided to remind me of what is wrong with my wedding, and my mother had made more threats about the wedding than I can count (She has stated she won't show up, she is going to wear a swanky dress, she will probably show up late, she will give people the wrong directions, really?). I think I am fed up with everyone and want to go back the drawing board on this. FH doesn't care, he's had it with our families as well.
My aunt has contributed money and I am so tired of her making remarks about my weight I am tempted to just return her contribution. Also, I recently resigned from my job because boss was bullying me,among other things, and telling me there is nothing I can do as I have a wedding I to pay for. I'm not concerned about the money but I am losing my sanity over this wedding. I reached out to OOT friends and family to see if they have purchased airline tickets and no one has yet. I was told that my wedding was not their priority at the moment. I thought I was begin courteous by checking everyone's travel plans before I made the decision. I am opened to your suggestions or opinions on the subject. Thanks!