Pre-made "Will you be my bridesmaid" cards?

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LondonLisa said:

I totally understand where OP is coming from- it is perfectly normal to insist you have matching sides even if you aren't close. Don't you all remember that horrible story on here about the woman who only had 1 BM when her groom had 5? The Vicar stopped the ceremony and counted the attendants. He was disgusted that the Bride had been so thoughtless to not consider symmetry for photos that he refused to perform the wedding. He announced: "This bride isn't going to have pinterest worthy photos. She should have had the foresight to plan her bridal party even if she wasn't close enough with people to call them. I will NOT perform this ceremony". Her fiance ripped the engagement ring off her hand and shouted "I refuse to marry such a stupid bint who didn't have the EXACT number of close friends as me" and ran away never to be seen again. She now works at TV Guide.

You don't? Of course not, because that would never happen in the real world. If you aren't close enough to call them, they should not be in your bridal party. Order cards, ask them however you want to, but trust me, this will be SO much more special with your 1 or 2 close friends then shoe-horning in random cousins.