My FSIL has four unvaccinated kids, and I'm wondering if we have a responsibility to inform any of our guests, and if so, whom?
I talked about it a bit with FI last night, where a few valid points were made.
** we could have a bunch of other unvaccinated guests that we just don't know about! and we clearly aren't going to go around polling people
** school aged children will likely, at one point or another, have unvaccinated classmates and see them almost daily
** FI thinks I'm overthinking this and that really the only people at risk are the other unvaccinated ones. But my side of the family is pretty *ahem* "pro-vaxxer" to put it mildly, and I can imagine people getting annoyed if they found out their little kids were exposed to other unvaccinated children without warning, of course then I revisit my first point in that their kids are inevitably going to be exposed to unvaccinated kids.
Is there etiquette around this? I looked around and couldn't find very much. For the sake of family harmony, I don't feel it's a possibility to exclude her kids.