I have herd the groom buys the brides and bride buys the grooms? But do you really have to do it that way. My groom didn't even pick out my engagement ring. We were "just looking" and I picked one that I loved and two weeks later he proposed! I really had no idea though because I always want to go look at rings? Lol anyways.... Me and my mom are doing some wedding shopping over the weekend and would it be terrible just to pick out the bands I want to get and buy them without the groom. He's not picky and will wear whatever. The whole wedding planning he has always said it's up to you, whatever you want. So I don't think he will have a problem with it.
Re: Who buys the wedding bands?
Back last fall, I dragged DH to a wedding show, and a jeweler there had a display of men's rings. He liked a tungsten ring with the carbon fiber inlay, so a little later on, I found that same ring for $400 cheaper on amazon, and bought it, along with a blue version so he could wear it as his engagement ring.
I guess around February he saw a plain white gold band in Sam's Club. He admitted then that he wasn't as crazy about the tungsten after wearing it for a while. He thought it was heavy and clunky.
A month or so after that, I was going crazy shopping for my wedding band, and I saw a similar one to the white gold band at a local jeweler for a big discount. I went ahead and bought it without him, and that's his wedding band.
So I bought both rings without him, but with his input. I bought my own wedding band after a LOT of shopping around. He thinks I should have gotten the band that matches my e-ring.