Hi, I was hoping for some advice. I'm not very girly so I feel like a fish out of water planning this thing. We're getting married in November. One side of the family has a severe distaste for alcohol. In order to not make a big deal of it and to reduce the cost of providing alcohol for the whole group, we're having a kind of after reception party where alcohol is invited. These invitations are a secret part of the invite. They say "Please quietly join us for an after party." and things of that nature.
What should I write on the envelopes for these mini inserts???