Ok this is two questions
We're having a small private wedding (14 people total including us). The wedding will be in our pastor's office at our church followed by dinner at a restaurant. For the invitation wording do we still call the dinner a reception? We're not doing anything that makes me think "reception" but I suppose we are hosting the dinner so it still counts?
How would you word the information about the restaurant on the invitation?
For the restaurant reception everyone can order whatever they want from the menu should we include something with the invite that tells folks about the different menu options? We don't need to know what they're ordering in advance or anything just unsure if it would be proper to let people know what type of things are being served in advance.