am I the only one that goes to weddings and finds it so rude that people just blabber on during the first dance? I feel like it's disrespectful towards the couple. has anyone who is already married had the guests be silent during the first dance? I am planning on doing that but don't know how to have the DJ ask. I don't think it's a super bridezilla thing to do, I think it's just respectful to the couple to honor their first dance with silence and not a bunch of background chatter.