We're getting our cake from an amazing bakery and I just got their quote. I'm about to call them for more details, but I wanted some input first.
If the cake comes from a bakery that usually has long lines because their cake is that good, and it's the only dessert at our reception, and we have a lot of guests with big appetites, what size pieces should we serve? Wedding slices are usually 1*2, whereas party slices are usually 2*2.
Also, how big a deal is it to serve a slightly larger slice of 2-layer sheet cake from the same bakery (so same quality and flavor) along with the smaller slices of the 3-layer round cakes? I figure an inch longer (so 2*2 if we're serving 1*2 or 2*3 if we're serving 2*2) will approximately make up the volume of dessert, but the proportion of cake to icing and filling might be different, and I'm not sure it would actually save me money with this particular bakery.
Re: How Much Cake?
Likewise, as long as the cake is of the same flavour and quality, it is perfectly fine to have a smaller decorated tiered round cake for display and cutting and then have a large sheet cake in the back that is cut up and served. Talk with your baker and see what works out best for you price wise. The sheet cake is usually cheaper, as it is that- a large rectangle, minimal decoration.
All guests should get the SAME portion of cake! No guest should be getting a smaller slice than others - it reflects INCREDIBLY poorly on you as a host and oftentimes when the geometry is done, the difference in cost is minimal compared to the side-eye (yes, nothing worse than being a cake lover and while the hater next to you gets a four-layer filled slice of cake you're given less than a half portion of unfilled from an aluminum pan kiddie cake instead)... As long as the portion of cake/fillings/frosting is the same for ALL guests, it's perfectly fine to have the smaller photo-op cake with equally matched cakes for the serving in the back, but it is never o.k. to give some guests one portion and other guests another portion. You wouldn't give some guests a 4oz. steak and others 12oz., you shouldn't do it for cake either.
Talk to your baker to make sure all portions of slices are the same for all guests. At the end of the day, if the cake is delish, it will get eaten. I've never been to a wedding with great cake that had any leftover!
If your FI is talking about an ice cream cake, yum! But it probably wouldn't be practical to have the cake out on display for a prolonged period of time before cutting it.
tiered cakes done in buttercream filled with buttercream or a simple filling like mousse and simple designs using a piping bag will cost you less around 1-3.00 a serving where as doing a cake with an elaborate filling covered in fondant with sugar flowers or gumpaste flowers will cost you around 4.00 and up a serving