Before I even got engaged I had no less than 7 friends personally ask if they could be a bridesmaid. Now I can only imagine taking on 4 bridesmaids for my 75 person wedding. How do I ask the remaining 3 girls to be involved in different ways in the wedding without them feeling disappointed?
Re: Help! Too Many Bridesmaids
Also, wait until about 9 months before your wedding to ask the four girls that you do want as BMs. No sooner. Friendships change and you don't want to be stuck with BMs who you've drifted apart from.
Ignore your friends good, but misplaced intentions, and choose your bridesmaids about 9 months out.
You are not obligated to include all of them- it was rude of them to ask you to be a BM.
Thanks everyone for your responses! I can see now what they did was rude and put me in an uncomfortable position. I shouldn't have to bend to their whims when it is my wedding.