Hi Everyone!
I want to send a thank you card to a relative who declined to attend my upcoming wedding but sent us a cheque in with the response.
I really have no idea what I should say other than acknowledging the gift with a thank you and saying something along the lines of how I'll miss them at the wedding.... is something that simple good?
Is it rude of me to accept it at all? I feel bad because I didn't invite them to get money, I genuinely wanted them to attend. They're older relatives that I haven't seen a whole lot of in recent years (tho I did see them briefly over Easter and back at Christmas).
Honestly, I have no idea what the etiquette is in this type of situation......