I've never been involved with the bridal shower guest list process
before, so, I wanted to check to see if I am going about this the right
My sisters and two close friends are hosting my Bridal Shower and have asked me for a guest list. The guest list count is way below what they can comfortably host, so head count is not an issue.
My FIL's had asked if we would be able to invite 4 couples that are close friends to our wedding, and FI grew up around these couples so we decided to invite them. Wedding invites have not gone out yet, but STD's have. I plan on inviting most of the women invited to my wedding, however, of the 4 couples that are FIL's friends I have only met two.
My concerns are that if I invite the two women I have met and not the other two, feelings might get hurt or if I invite the 2 women I have not yet met it might look gift grabby.
I'm thinking not to invite the 4 women at all, but, I know that FMIL is close with all 4 women and would enjoy having them at the Bridal Shower.