my wedding is in October. We've been planning since about February. It's a small wedding (22 guests) and initially I wanted a MOH and FI wanted a BM.
I ended up deciding not to have a wedding party because I did not want to have to decide between my childhood best friend and my best friend I met within the last 6 years. Recently the thought popped into my head that I probably could have not made anyone a MOH but just had two or three bridesmaids and arrange us in height order as to not hurt anyone's feelings. Now I'm really wanting to have my friends involved, but is it too late?
The only thing I would ask is they wear a fall colored dress and that if they don't own one and can't afford one, it honestly doesn't matter.
As fAr as groomsmen,(there would be 3) do they have to match FI? (Grey vest, navy blue pants, white shirt) he's concerned it's too late for them to purchase attire. I figured it would be okay just to get something of those colors - the greys don't have to match (although my mom insisted my dads outfit matches FIs exactly)
i dont really know what is expected of bridesmaids and groomsmen but I wouldn't be asking them to pay for anything. Just show up, preferably not naked. Haha