I'm feeling misanthropic, so maybe it's unkind, maybe not.
I think I mentioned that BIL and xSIL are getting re-married after many shenanigans. And from what I'm hearing, they are throwing themselves a capital-W Wedding with all the trappings.
If this turns out to be accurate, it's completely bogus, right? I mean fine, marry, divorce, remarry, whatever. But I think a full-on wedding the second time around is a bit much, right?
Y'ALL: After I typed that, I thought "They wouldn't register, right? I mean, even they wouldn't actually register again...right?"
Wrong. They have totally registered again. Maybe it's for the completion discount, but then I would hope you'd have enough shame to set your registry to private.
Y'all...
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Re: Is this uncharitable?
See? Uncharitable.
ETA: I will stop being lazy and actually ETA this:
The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) entitles an eligible employee to take up to 12 workweeks of job-protected unpaid leave to care for a spouse, son, daughter, or parent with a serious health condition. See 29 USC 2612(a)(1). FMLA leave may be taken to provide care for any individual who is the employee’s “parent” as the term is defined in the statute and its regulations. See 29 USC 2611(7).
In enacting the FMLA, Congress recognized the changing nature of the American population, including the growing number of elderly Americans and the growing need for wage earners to provide care both for their children and for their parents. For FMLA leave purposes, a “parent” is defined broadly as the biological, adoptive, step, or foster parent of an employee or an individual who stood in loco parentis to the employee when the employee was a son or daughter. See 29 C.F.R. § 825.122. “Parent” does not include the employee’s parents-in-law.
If they want the big 'ol hoo ha then they can knock themselves out as long as they're not trying to fund raise or have a cash bar or whatever.
And it's their own choice to put a registry together, but at this point no, I don't think I'd treat them as some wide eyed couple wondering what the miracle of intercourse might be like on their wedding night. They'd get a trinket from me because I'd wish them well but I'd have a hard time treating this like a couple who hasn't done that with each other before.
FMLA can absolutely be used for an ill parent.
I wonder if the outlaws would like a metal chicken or a black velvet painting better?
ETA: I got it! How about a Big Eyes knockoff?
http://www.geeksofdoom.com/2014/09/18/first-trailer-tim-burtons-big-eyes/big-eyes-margaret-keane-tim-burton
http://www.popsugar.com/home/15-Totally-Weird-Wedding-Gifts-2010-05-19-070000-8476323?slide=13
And 'damn, I didn't realize it would be a big shindig; no PTO left, so sorry Charlie. Here, have a new teakettle" sounds like a good answer to me.