My wedding is just under 3 months away and we have been engaged for almost 2 years at this point. I got super excited when we got engaged and wanted to be prepared financially so I booked all of my vendors REALLY early. Now I'm following up with a lot of them to make sure everything is still in order and I'm getting many of them saying "It's a little early, we will contact you a 60 days or a month before". I feel like I'm being a pest but I just don't want to have to worry about these things 2 weeks before the wedding and have to stress about how I'm going to find a cake because the bakery lost my contract or some silly scenario that I've made up in my head. I feel like I'm too on top of things and I am starting to become an annoyance. Mind you once I've made contact and my anxiety is resolved I'm leaving them alone.