So I have been calling my step dad "dad" for 13 years and didn't see my biological father after the "adoption" more than 5 times. We (bio dad and I) now are getting coffee together about once every 2-3 months for the past three years. He hasn't offered help in anyway and I am wondering do I get him a gift for just being there? I got my step dad a key chain that says, "thanks for walking by me on my wedding day and raising me as your own." Since he is walking me down the aisle.
It feels like the thought isn't there and it kind of confuses me of what to do and who should get gifts. Especially because my bio dad's hasn't asked about what days we are setting up and what he can do to help with planning. I obviously need to talk to him and see what his ideas are about the time before the wedding, but still the gift thing is really confusing me.