Last night we got a wedding gift delivered. When I opened it, there was a card from someone we did not invite. In fact, I'd only met this woman and her husband once, very briefly. They are friends with my FFIL. Long story short, we called him and found out that he had verbally invited SIX people to the wedding that we were not aware of. Btw, the wedding is this Saturday -- so we have about 5 days notice. We got their phone numbers and called to confirm that they are attending, and all will be.
After spending a good hour being highly annoyed, we managed to get the caterer updated numbers. My only issue now, is that with the extra table, the tables are encroaching into the ceremony seating area.
So I have two options:
(1) Set up the extra table and have a lopsided ceremony seating set up. We'd have 5 rows on one side and 9 rows on the other.
(2) Set up the extra table during the cocktail hour.
I have to be honest that I'm really wanting to do (1). Simply because I'm the one setting up the tables on Friday, and I would like to know that everything is set up and ready to go before the wedding starts [yeah.. I probably sound controlling here.. Sorry]. And I'm worried that the space is a bit small to have setup going on with the guests in the room.
So is lopsided ceremony seating okay? Or should I suck it up and have the one table set up during cocktail hour?
[P.S. I know I asked a very similar question a few weeks ago.. but I'm just not sold on the setup during cocktail hour and was wondering if this is an acceptable alternative.]
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