Okay, so this sounds and seems so harsh, but I realize now we should have waited to pick our wedding party. Though I'm totally happy with my bridesmaids, we've hit a huge bump in the road with a certain groomsmen and it's to the point where niether my fiance or I want him at our wedding.
I will admit this is definitely partially our fault. My fiance and I didn't feel super close to him to begin with, but he was dating my maid of honor and marriage was on the table for them, he had also helped us out of some tricky situations and we felt we owed it to him to not exclude him from the wedding party when literally all our other friends were asked to stand with us.
Well he and my maid of honor had a nasty break up in August, which didn't change our minds, but is just the icing on top of the cake. What really did it for me as when he told his roommate that we probably stole their internet account (we did not) when they had mysterious charges appear, his roomie later told us they were a company mistake and they cleared it up when called. It's not the only crappy trying he's done lately but it's the most frustrating.
My fiance has been avoiding telling him, but just want to get it over with. How do I tell him hes no longer invited to our wedding? Im honestly not even interested in teying to fix our friendship, he's hurt us and my maid of honor too badly.