Hey! I am a sort of new knottie. I'm a second time bride, and was apart of theknot my first time around (ps, where did all the knotties go, this place was booming back then). FI and I are on a limited budget. We almost went to the court house, but I really want to do a small ceremony with our kids involved. I have chosen this dress. Hair will be down with a hair piece. No blusher veil as second wedding etiquette dictates (possibly no veil at all to save money). What do you think about necklace? yay or nay?