Hi friends, my wedding is July and I am sending out STD this weekend. Our venue allows 175, and my guestlist is 220. We know for a fact about 30 people definitely wont be there. And I hear its unlikely everyone invited can come, although it could.
I am wondering if anyone invited over their max? Many people say dont do it bc what IF everyone can come then you promised spots without room. But others say its fine within reason bc rarely 100% confirm.
Wondering if I should just send STD to 175, and when it comes time for invites, then send out a few rounds?
advice much appreciated!!! obviously wedding planning is a new experience for everyone here (mostly) but gosh its overwhelming! Quick engagement due to fiances military status :0