I have a HUGE family! So my fiancée and I are kind of splitting our wedding up. We are having a small 100 person wedding in March 2018 where I am just inviting my aunts & uncles. Then plan on having an "I Do BBQ" in the summer of 2018 for my cousins. Question is: would it be rude of me to invite my cousins to my bridal shower, even though they will not be getting invitations to the formal wedding? Any and all advice is welcome, especially if you have experienced something similar. Thank you!