My stationary just got back from the printer and the return address on the outer envelope and the mailing address on the RSVP response envelope have no name on the top line (long story, and ultimately my mistake). I spoke with my designer and she said she didn't ask me about it because 'many couples choose to have no names added.' I'm sort of weirded out by it but ambivalent, because we need to send them asap. But my mother is convinced that she's just saying that to cover for herself and not have us complain. She wants a reprint. Wedding is October 13th and the RSVP by date is September 7th.
Have any of you heard of this before? It's just street address on the top line and the city, state, zip on the second line.
Would you consider this very abnormal if you got an envelope like this?
Thank you!!! I'm panicking!
Re: Return Address Question
As a receiver, I might be skeptical of an envelope without a name on it ("who is this?") and you risk people thinking it's junk mail. I'd like to believe most of us open letters even without knowing the sender. Are there other elements of the mailing that look wedding-y? Savvy marketers are making some of their mailings look more like personal mail so again, you risk people thinking it's junk.
If you can get a reprint at no cost I'd request it, personally. But not a hill to die on, and not something to panic about it.
But echoing everyone else; why are your invites going out with only 3 weeks to the RSVP deadline? And why is your RSVP deadline so far away from your wedding date? Most dates are 2 weeks-ish ahead; we actually made a change a week before because we hadn't gotten our final catering invoice yet.