So my Fiance can not make up his mind on who he wants as an usher or groomsmen because he is way too nice and doesn't want to hurt feelings. We have 7 groomsmen and bridesmaids and 4 ushers as of now and 350-400 guests. He can't pick between 2 friends for the 7th groomsmen and we have our ushers filled. Is 5 too many ushers for this size of wedding?? What other roles can a guy do where he isn't an usher or a groomsmen?? HELP! He is driving me crazy!!