My fiance has two nieces and two nephews all of which are siblings. The nieces are our flower girls and the one nephew is our ring bearer. My fiance wants to include his other nephew some how and his family recommended making him an usher. I think it would be a lot to expect a 14 year old to hand out programs and seat people. I was thinking someone else could hand out the programs and the nephew could seat people or he could hand out the programs and someone else could seat people. Do you think it is too much for one person to seat 140-160 people? My thought was that we could just have him greet and pass out programs and everyone can seat themselves. We aren't doing sides so it doesn't matter where people sit.