My venue is charging $3,000 for the use for one day. It's a B&B so for an additional $1,250 we can rent the 5 rooms for the night before and after to house our wedding party. They also indicated they expect us to help set up and take down the tables and chairs. Is it out of line for me to expect that for $3,000 they can manage to do that with only direction in where to place things? I don't want to ask my family and wedding party who are traveling to be there to also stick around and work before and after the wedding.